This morning, I read a little about the difference between men and women. Each of them, mostly, hope the opposite site to understand their own way of thinking, perspective, or even action. But really, it has to be cleared. The two of each category are different. You can not push the other to only understand you thoroughly while you are not trying to listen to their opinion either. One of the keys is, based on the book Men from Mars and Women from Venus, understanding each other.
Occasionally, whilst the woman having such a bad day, she would recount every situation she had gone through. In most of those situations, based on the book and also my own experience, the woman only needs a place where she could throw the trash to. The person that being needed the most at that time is someone who would listen to the words that being blurted out. Plus the empathy and the sincere attention. Without saying any words, by doing so, you already help her to recover and cast away her burden, once again based on the book. Well, in my opinion, whenever your partner had a bad day, try to give that person your sincere attention and empathy. In addition, tell him or her that you really want to help by any means. Try to avoid the judgmental, solutional, or sceptical speech when you are not asked and hold your tongue until your partner finishes the gripe. If that person is your true partner for your future, he/she will appreciate your honest intention.
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