The Alteration

Coward. I don't know since when I behaved like one, but one thing that is certain, fail was never an option for me. Someone who never flunked in his life - it is considered as a great success, isn't it? Well, the answer is, NOPE! Because I, who regarded as the one that never fail, always feared the word "FAIL". As the consequence, I never tried something new or even initiated to make a move. I didn't want to lose my title, the one who never fail.

Being frightened of losing my special epithet, I will only step on the field that guarantees 100% success and no risk at all, which recently realized as the greatest failure of mine. People may say that my recent achievements are "good", but never "great" - and those accomplishments are "normal" which possibly done by most of people. My desire leads me to demand the "great" attainments which cannot be reached by "normal" people. In order to seek those goals, I have to be ready to face failure after failure, always initiate and pursue the chance to do something that I have never done before. To be the great man of the future. "The one who regrets the most is not the one who has failed countless time, but someone who never give his 100% effort."

Reap and Sow: The Fruit of Accumulated Hard Work

You reap what you sow. We will receive something based on the effort given earlier. Let's talk about the same topic as yesterday - dream. The thing which synonymous with aim, goal, target, destination or whatever-you-called-it will only become true by the accumulation of effort. The blessing of macro cosmos would be incorrect to justify the goal accomplishment, but the aggregate amount of attempt could be one. The history told that the successful people are the one who constantly holds the effort with perseverance for a long time. Nobody would succeed easily on the first try.

As the same with the dream, mastering a special ability would also take time. Compatibility only contributes a small amount, yet persistence and hard work are essential in constructing the skill. They are the price to possess the designated proficiency which had to be paid earlier. Anyone may curse the destiny when realising the glorious while, on the other hand, they had nothing to proud of. Well, the answer would be a question - Have you paid the price?

Train Track: The Importance of Having a Destination

A life without a goal is like a plant without the light - firstly the plant will grow faster but eventually dies a moment later. In this case, we will not recognize whether our life moves faster or not since we never know our "real time" in this world; nevertheless, dreamless life will make the life lost its meaning. Our world always stables without any up and down; however our life is fun because it is like a roller-coaster, isn't it? Creating a goal will turn on your adrenaline, which means you are either being challenged or scared. Both are fine, actually. 

All of us could never predict  the future, we could only plan for the best. If you don't even know the dream you want to chase to, that is fine.  Listen to your heart, listen to your surroundings. Keep your mind open, do not be an obstinate nor headstrong person. Take your time and think slowly, after you found one, stick to it and move as fast as you can to achieve the dream. After all, a slow-paced train which moves to its destination is still better than the derailed one, right?

A Small Tips to Reach The Bigger Step on Relationship

This morning, I read a little about the difference between men and women. Each of them, mostly, hope the opposite site to understand their own way of thinking, perspective, or even action. But really, it has to be cleared. The two of each category are different. You can not push the other to only understand you thoroughly while you are not trying to listen to their opinion either. One of the keys is, based on the book Men from Mars and Women from Venus, understanding each other.

Occasionally, whilst the woman having such a bad day, she would recount every situation she had gone through. In most of those situations, based on the book and also my own experience, the woman only needs a place where she could throw the trash to. The person that being needed the most at that time is someone who would listen to the words that being blurted out. Plus the empathy and the sincere attention. Without saying any words, by doing so, you already help her to recover and cast away her burden, once again based on the book. Well, in my opinion, whenever your partner had a bad day, try to give that person your sincere attention and empathy. In addition, tell him or her that you really want to help by any means. Try to avoid the judgmental, solutional, or sceptical speech when you are not asked and hold your tongue until your partner finishes the gripe. If that person is your true partner for your future, he/she will appreciate your honest intention. 

This Is Not Commonly Taken By The 95%

It's been several years since I studied psychology, which gave me the knowledge related to statistics. Based on normal distribution theory, with the normal curve as the trademark, the top tier is the place for only less than 5% of the total sum. Implying that for every person born in this world, there is only a small percentage of them who really excels in a particular area. Being a writer of this article, doesn't mean that I am included to the selected people. Nevertheless, a great effort should be made to chase the goal of mine - to be the top 2% as a learner.

The same situation was forcefully brought to your life. Whether you like it or not, it doesn't care. In fact, it never cares. The challenges will always dare you in the face. They will never stop for a moment just to hear your excuses, blames, or even justifications. The world, which previously been declared as your comfort zone, unexpectedly will swallow your as a whole when you halt your progress and daydream unrealistic situations. You only have two option: stand or surrender. Well, you have the choices, whilst I don't. However, you have to believe that this is not your only game. This is everyone's game. Therefore, I believe that anyone will gladly stand together with you if you ask and open your heart. Let's prove that we are in the top 5%, or even better - the top 2%.